Men Winning Divorce

Men’s Divorce Tactics

Article by Anthony Alers

If you are a man facing divorce, this is quite simply the most important letter you will read today – and possibly the most important letter you will read in your lifetime!

You see, the simple truth is when it comes to divorce the scales of justice really do tip toward women. If you are not careful, if you do not enter your divorce with the insider knowledge very few know, you could lose EVERYTHING!

For instance, right now, thousands upon thousands of men are paying way too much in child support and alimony and they don’t even know it!

They are struggling to make their monthly payments and their wives are using the extra money to get “beauty treatments,” to buy new clothes, to make payments on the fancy new car they just bought and much more!Don’t Let This Happen to You!Get the insider information you need to know to turn the tables and take your wife to the cleaners!You’ll be amazed at how easy it is to do when you know just a few insider tips.

Unfortunately, getting the information you need to know to really win a divorce has historically been very difficult as lawyers simply don’t want this information to get out.But now things have changed.

Why?

Because I have decided enough is enough. I’m tired of seeing my fellow men, my brothers in arms, being taken advantage of again and again and again. I’m tired of seeing them lose everything that they worked so hard to get the money to buy – like their homes and their cars.I’m tired of seeing them lose their life savings and be forced to struggle for the rest of their lives to make child support and alimony payments that have been set way too high and that doom them to living lives of “just getting by.”I’m so tired of this, in fact, that I’ve decided to break the lawyers’ unwritten rules and reveal the true insider secrets you need to know to win your divorce.You see, I used to be one of the bad guys. I used to be a divorce lawyer who specialized in getting women everything that they wanted and then some in their divorces.

It used to be my job to “annihilate” poor saps like you before you even knew what hit you. But enough is enough.

It’s time that you learned the real truth. It’s time that you learned the secrets you need to know to turn the tables on your wife and get everything that you want in the divorce!

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Anthony is living conformable at his home doing his work at home business.

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Men’s Divorce Tactics

Article by Ken Balch

You’ve Worked Hard All Your Life; Don’t Let Her Take Everything

A man involved in a divorce is, perhaps for the first time in his life, participating in a situation largely out of his control. After a lifetime of success in business and other pursuits, nearly all of which require one to be in absolute control, he is now entrusting his immediate future to forces and persons entirely outside of himself. Everything is at stake here: savings, future earnings, property, alimony, even custody & visitation issues.

While it’s absolutely necessary to engage an experienced divorce attorney, don’t simply trust them to automatically have your best interests at heart. While it’s their sworn fiduciary duty to do so, they’re human, too, and have their own life issues and distractions. Through no fault of their own, even the most competent lawyer will not have your interests as high on their own priority list as you’d like.

You need to be prepared. Use every resource available to you (such as you’re doing now) and gather all the inside info on the process as humanly possible. The unpleasant reality is that, even in this supposedly modern world of equal rights, in a divorce proceeding nearly all of the legal presumptions are set up to favor the woman and her ‘rights’. No matter who was at fault (or even if nobody was at fault), the ‘system’ is pre-loaded to look out for her, NOT you.

You must enter this arena armed with all the insider knowledge you can muster. Don’t wind up as one of the poor SOBs we all know who got screwed by their exes in court and are now living like college students in low-rent studio apartments while their ex-wives still have the home, the cars, the kids, and nearly every dollar these guys can earn.

Don’t Be A Victim!

Men’s Divorce TacticsPreserve Your Financial Security

If you’re even thinking about divorce (and you must be, since you’re here!), start taking precautions today! You future security needs to be your primary concern. As they used to say in the space program, “No bucks, no Buck Rogers”. Everything flows from financial security. Protect your finances FIRST.

Unnecessary expenses are just that; unnecessary. Ruthlessly eliminate them from your life. Everything that can go, should go. If things are remotely civil with your soon-to-be-ex at this point, talk with her about canceling any jointly held bills. Money saved together now will benefit both of you down the road. Sell anything that you can live without. If a specific item is important, you can buy another one after the divorce. This is not the time to be emotional about objects. Keep your wits about you. You’re preparing for battle, so simply decide that you’re going to do whatever is necessary to

Win The Fight!!

Men’s Divorce TacticsCredit Cards, Loans, and Bank Accounts

Cancel every joint account for which you are the primary cardholder or signer. I’m talking about everything here: credit cards, personal loans, checking & savings, brokerage accounts, 401K plans, utility bills, department stores, gas station cards, etc.

Everything can and will be used against you by a savvy lawyer and the sexually skewed legal ‘system’.

Be In Control!

Men’s Divorce TacticsDon’t Be Naive

From this point onward, take nothing for granted. For one reason or another, you and your wife no longer want to be together as a couple. There are as many reasons for this situation as there are couples, but one thing is certain: For you to maintain the same level of trust in her good intentions is simply na?ve. Don’t be that guy. You know, the poor sap who thought she wouldn’t screw him, legally speaking, because she just wasn’t ‘like that’.

Let me tell you, given the right set of circumstances, they’re all like that. Her lawyer is telling her that she just won the lottery and all she needs to do to cash in that ticket is a, b, and c. Do you really think she’s going to leave that ticket on the proverbial table? If you still really believed that, you probably wouldn’t be getting divorced, right? Right.

Get Focused!

Men’s Divorce TacticsRemember This

You are not the first guy in this situation. Others have gotten through it successfully, with their finances and futures intact. If you handle things properly now, you may very well find yourself in even better shape down the road, in every possible context of that phrase. All will be well later if you take care of yourself today.

Good Luck!

Men’s Divorce Tactics


About the Author

A lifelong reader, writer, and gadget guy, I’m interested in anything and everything mechanical. I’ve been a flight instructor, an airline pilot, an IT Director, and an author. I’ve built & flown my own airplane. In my spare time, I enjoy open wheel racing with Skip Barber.

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