Men Winning Divorce

In some case men deliberately lose their jobs and prefer unemployment as an act of “cutting ones nose” in spite rather than paying a fortune in slavery. That is a tough call to make but it does indeed happen and understandably.

What you need to do is look at means of reducing out-goings such as costs of living such as:

• Can you move to a cheaper location?
• Can you cancel your ex’s health insurance?
• Reduce your liability insurance. If you jointly own a house and she is living rent free then you probably want to get rid of it. I would not bother with property tax and utilities bills – let her worry about being dispossessed.

The odds are you will be the one to move out of the home and if children are involved you will lose considerable access to your children and will need to arrange for visitation rights. Make sure your child visitation rights are established with an agreed timetable/schedule and if not then withhold all payments until this is agreed. You are in the trenches and you need to stick it out… Do not let the emotions get to the point that you will agree to anything…

Now with the actual move itself – make a checklist such as:

• Set up new bank account
• Find a new house or apartment
• If applicable find a suitable dare care center.
• Arrange change of telephone, mailing address, utilities (gas, electricity, water), cable/TV services, drivers license bureau notification and car registration.
• Get forms to cancel services to your old home or have them transferred to the wives name.
• Arrange for moving services and make sure to pack in advance before the big day.

However that is the amicable moving arrangement.

What if you need to get out quick and escape for good? In other words the “Disappearing Houdini Act”. The best bet is in another state or better still move to a new country. In this case you are going to have to sell everything, move money to a new bank account and find means of a new income.

If this is the case or you are even at the point that you thinking about changing identity then I recommend further reading and research.

Check out:

Cover Your Tracks…

ID Master…

On that note take care and look after yourself. Make sure to sign-up to the newsletter if not already as this will provide you with the tools you need in helping you gain the upper hand. I look forward to seeing you on the other side.

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1. First Thing You Need to do Now
2. Get Rid of that Screaming Bitch Once and For All – Divorce Tactics Intro
3. Where to Begin in Winning the War
4. Project Rebuild & Escape

Cheating Spouse? Reclaim Your Life and Your Dignity...

Pay attention and make sure to lock the door, turn the TV, music and the mobile phone off… No distractions – if you are reading this then you know your life is in danger and you are either entering or in domestic warfare. It is no joke or laughing matter…

There is no such thing as a nice divorce or separation – especially when there are kids involved. Unfortunately the legal system is stacked up against you and the odds are never on the man’s side.

Women it seems plan this many month’s even years ahead and only have their self interests and revenge in mind. The dirty tricks and tactics they play have only one purpose and that is to destroy you from the inside out and turn you into a slave – economically, mentally and emotionally.

The first thing to do is to accept your situation and deal with it in a planned concise manner with one goal in mind and that is to take charge and control.

But before you can even get there – you need to sort your physical and mental state.

I know it sounds obvious – but if this is going to drag out into the courts that last thing you need is to be stuck with getting depressed and drunk. You must be focused throughout the coming ordeal to its end. Make sure to seek support of family, friends or even counselling to help you through this. I also strongly suggest that you begin eating healthy and take up exercise which does much to keep you positive and focused.

If you have not already done so now is the time to assess your situation and do the following:

1) Get all of your financial records together – earnings versus expenditure.
2) Make a list of your assets.

Assess the worst outcome from a legal and financial aspect. Now assess your best outcome in the same manner as this will be your goals and objective. Keep this information hidden from your ex and anyone else.

In the next featured article we will discuss Divorce Tactics – what women do and what you can do. You will learn about forming your strategy and how to adopt it by the use of stealth.

On that note take care and look after yourself. Make sure to sign-up to the newsletter as this will provide you with the tools you need in helping you gain the upper hand. You will also get the report “Surviving Divorce” in getting you started.

Men Winning Divorce Newsletter Details

Featured Articles:
1. First Thing You Need to do Now
2. Get Rid of that Screaming Bitch Once and For All – Divorce Tactics Intro
3. Where to Begin in Winning the War
4. Project Rebuild & Escape

Cheating Spouse? Reclaim Your Life and Your Dignity...

First of all it begins with you and you need to gain knowledge. Understand the law in your jurisdiction – the pitfalls, traps and problems which you can expect such as Injunctions, summonses and lockouts… Knowledge is power!!!

You need to get a good reliable lawyer and in parallel you need to ensure that costs are kept at a minimum such as providing a case dossier and clear guidance as to your goals and objective. If your lawyer is not providing the service you require then you need to change ASAP.

Does your lawyer provides the time to explain the situation and is readily available to answer any questions or make suggestions as to the legal strategy?

When choosing a lawyer – take the time to make list of questions and outline your needs. Find out about previous cases and ask when he will next appear in court to represent a client. Go and watch him – does he fight on the behalf of his client? Better still attend court and choose a lawyer that impresses you and afterwards ask for an interview.

When working with an attorney keep in mind every time you talk the cost on the meter is running. Therefore you need to be concise and straight to the point. Also make sure the bill provided is itemized so that you can scrutinize what you are being billed for and ask the question does it add up? If not get a new lawyer before the bills get stacked up.

Also be prepared to negotiate and make concessions with your wife and her lawyer but hold on to your bargaining chips and do not allow the case to go into arguing on trivial points as this will increase the costs – move onto something else and go back to it at a later date.

This is for a sure this is a detailed subject and as such I recommend further study. An excellent resource is at LEGAD for less than $100 – this could save you thousands…

In the next featured article we will discuss where to begin in rebuilding a new life and future…

On that note take care and look after yourself. Make sure to sign-up to the newsletter as this will provide you with the tools you need in helping you gain the upper hand. You will also get the report “Surviving Divorce” in getting you started.

Men Winning Divorce Newsletter Details

Featured Articles:
1. First Thing You Need to do Now
2. Get Rid of that Screaming Bitch Once and For All – Divorce Tactics Intro
3. Where to Begin in Winning the War
4. Project Rebuild & Escape

Cheating Spouse? Reclaim Your Life and Your Dignity...

Depending on your situation and where you are you need to avoid being surprised in a relationship break-up. You need to stay alert and catch the danger signs – the earlier the better. This is war and you need to know your enemy so forget the past and assume that she will do the worst.

Love is blind and trust is the building block of a relationship. When that is destroyed there is no going back. Whether you are living together or apart you need to observe her behaviour, her patterns and assess what is going on –like:

Watch the mail – letters from the bank, an attorney or are they letters which you expect but are missing?

Telephone calls – are there long discussions? Make sure to get a detailed itemised billing so that you can see what the telephone numbers are and duration of the call. Is there anything unusual?

Your income tax returns – scrutinize this and check every item your wife gives you. If you do not do the finances in the household then you need to change this and keep this information away from her immediately.

Before forming your tactics you must know your enemy and as such here is an outline of the dirty tactics that women use:

• Denying Sex – this is a pressure tactic into forcing concessions in a relationship. If this is happening then there is only one thing you need to do and that is to apply for a divorce ASAP. This behaviour can also provoke a man into an affair as a prelude to divorce and this will be used against you.

• Provoking Violence – Wives use this by being completely unreasonable during discussions/arguments with the hope of making you frustrated, angry and if you lose your temper she has got you! Before you know it the police are at the door, you have been locked up and have lost access to your home, your assets and kids.

• Going Nuclear – You come home and find the house empty – all of your belongings taken or that the locks have been changed and your things thrown in the garbage.

• Doorbell rings and the police hand you a court order and tell you that you have 30 minutes to pack your belongings or you will be thrown in jail.

• You find that all your credit cards and bank accounts have been emptied.

• Huge bills on your name such as credit cards being ran to the limit.

• To be blunt the list is endless – however it is too dangerous to publish the other ones on-line even though the above list is a nightmare!

So what to do about it?

Gather information and intelligence:

• Keep a voice recorder on you at all times so that you can record any conversations as they happen. It will protect you if you have been wrongly accused.

• Adopt surveillance on your home such as the computer. Also use a secret video recorder and telephone recording tools. Check out: Cheating Spouse System

• Protect your possessions – place your valuables and financial records in a secret location such as a storage room/vault.

• Open up a new bank account and move your finances away from any joint accounts. You may also want to consider off-shore and clandestine money handling. One great technique is to go to the casino and cash money into chips and then on a later day convert them to cash and move the funds to your secret bank account. Hey you lost all your money gambling!

• Change the name on the household bills to your wives name ASAP!

If you are in the eye of the storm then either you need to get out of the home immediately or change the locks and perhaps use some of the tactics used by women.

The fundamental thing here is to protect yourself and gather evidence with moving your finances away from being damaged ASAP!

In the next featured article we will discuss where to begin in winning the war – indeed it is time to head into the legal minefield…

On that note take care and look after yourself. Make sure to sign-up to the newsletter as this will provide you with the tools you need in helping you gain the upper hand. You will also get the report “Surviving Divorce” in getting you started.

Men Winning Divorce Newsletter Details

Featured Articles:
1. First Thing You Need to do Now
2. Get Rid of that Screaming Bitch Once and For All – Divorce Tactics Intro
3. Where to Begin in Winning the War
4. Project Rebuild & Escape

Cheating Spouse? Reclaim Your Life and Your Dignity...

Long are the days gone by when the likes of King Henry VIII beheaded his wife in pursuit of a divorce and alimony settlement best suited to men.  I am sure that this leading pioneer in multiple marriages and divorce settlements would shake in his grave should he know the sad and sorry state of affairs that the world has gone into regarding the rights of men.

Somewhere between the 20^th Century with the suffragette movement, women’s rights and now in to the 21^st Century it now seems the ultra-right feminists have got it more than they wanted with oppressing men at every opportunity.  You don’t even have to be married to get screwed in a separation; especially if there are kids involved.

As the great Robin Williams once said “Ah, yes, divorce… from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man’s genitals through his wallet” is as close as its gets. Believe me I have been there and chances are if you are reading this you’re either in the eye of the storm or heading into a collision course.

The regular email newsletter has been designed to equip you with the necessary knowledge to put you back in control and to avoid getting screwed. You will also get the valuable report “Surviving Divorce” for free as well as tips and tricks to help you form a winning strategy and tactics to get you there.

“Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.”  Sun Tzu (Chinese General and Author, 500 BC):

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